Attempt to gather similar stats as rusage on Windows
A follow up to #82532. This is a bit hacked in because I think we need to discuss this before merging, but this is an attempt to gather similar metrics as `libc::rusage` on Windows.
Some comments on differences:
* Currently, we're passing `RUSAGE_CHILDREN` to `rusage` which collects statistics on all children that have been waited on and terminated. I believe this is currently just the invocation of the real `rustc` that the shim is wrapping. Does `rustc` itself spawn children processes? The windows version gets the child processes handle when spawning it, and uses that to collect the statistics. For maxrss, `rusage` will return "the resident set size of the largest child, not the maximum resident set size of the process tree.", the Windows version will only collect statistics on the wrapped `rustc` child process directly even if some theoretical sub process has a larger memory footprint.
* There might be subtle differences between `rusage`'s "resident set" and Window's "working set". The "working set" and "resident set" should both be the number of pages that are in memory and which would not cause a page fault when accessed.
* I'm not yet sure how best to get the same information that `ru_minflt`, `ru_inblock`, `ru_oublock`, `ru_nivcsw ` and `ru_nvcsw` provide.
r? `@pnkfelix`
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